Attention: BS lurkers

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To those of you who are betrayed spouses considering joining ClubTOW:  ClubTOW is not a forum for betrayed spouses; there are a number of forums/websites where a betrayed spouse can find support, including the one many of you already belong to.  (Yeah, we know about that! )

If you are a betrayed spouse and seeking support, we wish you well, but please understand ClubTOW is not a place that can (or will) offer solace to you.  The affair partner in your situation is not here.  Your wandering spouse is also not here. 

Focusing attention on the affair partner (OW/OM) is a waste of your time and won't get you any closer to healing. Your time would be better spent working on rescuing or repairing your marriage. You won't find any type of understanding you may be hoping for here.